Deb

My greatest joy is sharing the wisdom God has given me about forgiveness, healing, destiny and maturity. I do that in coffee shops and in auditoriums; in speaking and in writing; with humor and with candor. Contact me and let me know how I can serve your Women's group.

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Letting Go of Lost Dreams by Forgiving after Divorce

When we mentor a couple in a blended marriage, where either one or both have been married before, we make sure to talk about their relationship with their exes. Specifically, we want to impress on them the importance of forgiving after divorce, so their current marriage is free from the baggage of bitterness. My friend, …

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Make Couple Friends in Small Groups – Includes Recommendations

Joining a small group can be one of the easiest ways to make couple friends. Fall is a great time to find new groups opening up in your church, or you could start one yourself. Read on for some great recommendations. Why is it Important to make couple friends? In the years we’ve been mentoring …

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What does your Anniversary Timeline reveal about your Faith?

Celebrate your Marriage with an Anniversary Timeline

An anniversary is a notable event which we often mark with a dinner out or a getaway for just the two of us. This year, why not do something different and celebrate with an Anniversary Timeline? What is an Anniversary Timeline? There are many ways to celebrate your marriage. For instance, here is an article …

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How not to communicate in marriage!

Keys to Mastering Healthy Communication Techniques for Lasting Love

This is us, t-shirts revealing our original communication techniques. Bruce’s was, “To save time, let’s just assume I’m never wrong!” Mine was, “I’m just going to nod and act like I’m listening.” Both of us had very unhealthy marriage communication patterns, and they didn’t lead to harmony. Speaking of harmony, before I chose a title …

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Go to Bed Angry or Don’t Go to Bed Angry; That isn’t the Question!

Should we go to bed angry or not? When you and your spouse have an argument late at night, should you stay up and work through it or put it off until tomorrow? There are two sides to this issue and each have valid points. But what if neither option is the right one? Here’s …

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Your Marriage Story may not be Complete until you Tell the Story

What is your marriage story? You had plenty of photo-worthy moments, a few tough seasons, and long stretches of day-to-day humdrum life. Maybe you have ten years under your belt, or maybe you have fifty. But consider this – your story may not be complete until you tell the story! Three Things God wants to …

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