Unforgiveness clutches both spouses in the claws of a painful memory. Forgiveness slays the dragon and sets both spouses free.
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“And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”
Mark 11:25 NIV