This is Marriage Math: God is One, spouse is Two.
If spouse is One, we put enormous pressure on him. He will fail us because he’s not God. Then we fall out of love.
“First we idolize, then we demonize.” Craig Groeschel
“Of all the commandments, which is the most important?” “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’”
Mark 12:28-30 NIV