In order to get through to your husband you have to speak his language.
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”
Ephesians 4:29 NIV
“Regardless of what is being said to a man, if he discerns disrespect in it, he will reject it. . . .Because of this, a man will naturally gravitate to the place he gets the most respect and avoid places or people that make him feel disrespected.” Strengths-Based Marriage