Holidays can be very stressful on marriages. Focus on your own thoughts, words, and actions. Our inner peace depends far more on what comes out of us rather than what comes into us.
“Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.”
1 Peter 3:8-9 NIV